Dating Advice

Have you ever wondered if someone you’re attracted to is flirting or friendly?  It certainly can be confusing. My Clients tell me that trying to figure out whether a person has romantic feelings for you is one of the most frustrating things about dating. What exactly is flirting? In general you behave as if you […]

Find your perfect match in Austin can be frustrating, right?  Relying on Tindr to find a match? You’ve met dates at bars, and connected with potential suitors at networking events. But still, after all of that time and all of that effort, you’re looking for SOMETHING MORE.  If your current approach to dating isn’t giving you the […]

As a Professional Matchmaker, I have been asked how to make someone fall in love with you. I have interviewed over 3000 singles and helped over 500 people on their journey to finding love.  Some people actually think I can show them how to make someone fall in love. Could it be that it’s simply […]

Do you ever wonder why single women like married men? Like a moth to a flame, single women are drawn to a man in a relationship and are sometimes successful in poaching someone else’s mate.  Mate poaching is a term coined by David Buss in his book entitled Evolution of Desire. It describes the behavior […]

Why you are still single often has to do with emotional issues you either aren’t aware of or don’t want to deal with.  Clearly, some people are still single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others stay single due […]

Unfortunately in life and love, there can be surprising things that cause break ups in your relationships. Other times the signs of an impending break up will be easy to spot. For example, you might fight a lot or someone might’ve cheated. In other cases, one partner might just decide they’re no longer happy and […]

Dating became data with the onset of social media. As I work with my clients building successful relationships I am struck by the changes they are encountering in a dating world. No one even makes eye contact anymore much less strike up a conversation with an attractive stranger. Is it fear?  Is it just being […]

Buy My Book A collection of dating and relationship advice from one of only 14 Master Executive Certified Matchmakers, Julia McCurley. Julia explores everything from dating do’s and don’ts to the challenges of online dating to the myth of sexual empowerment to keeping your relationship alive by “dating your mate”.  Based on a decade of […]

When you’re happily in love, it’s so easy to miss signs that indicate if your partner really love you. While things like name calling and cheating are obvious red flags, it’s the little things you should pay attention to. Because according to experts, the small things can clue you in to how in love your […]