Dating Advice

Do you ever wonder why single women like married men? Like a moth to a flame, single women are drawn to a man in a relationship and are sometimes successful in poaching someone else’s mate.  Mate poaching is a term coined by David Buss in his book entitled Evolution of Desire. It describes the behavior […]

Why you are still single often has to do with emotional issues you either aren’t aware of or don’t want to deal with.  Clearly, some people are still single because they choose to be. They are simply not interested in being in a serious relationship at this time in their life. Others stay single due […]

Unfortunately in life and love, there can be surprising things that cause break ups in your relationships. Other times the signs of an impending break up will be easy to spot. For example, you might fight a lot or someone might’ve cheated. In other cases, one partner might just decide they’re no longer happy and […]

Dating became data with the onset of social media. As I work with my clients building successful relationships iI am struck by the changes they are encountering in a dating world. No one even makes eye contact anymore much less strike up a conversation with an attractive stranger. Is it fear?  Is it just being […]

My name is Julia McCurley and I am a Professional Matchmaker. For the past 10 years, I have had the privilege of working with hundreds of singles on their journey to finding love. If there is one thing I have learned, it’s that there is a special someone for each of us out there and […]

When you’re happily in love, it’s so easy to miss signs that indicate if your partner really love you. While things like name calling and cheating are obvious red flags, it’s the little things you should pay attention to. Because according to experts, the small things can clue you in to how in love your […]

The first step in meeting new people is to be more approachable. Having close relationships is one of the most meaningful elements to happiness. It’s not always easy to make friends, however. To form a friendship, you must be intrigued by them and you must also be just as interesting otherwise no one is going to […]

As a Professional Matchmaker in Austin, my male clients frequently ask me what women really want. Like  if they are being too nice and that’s why they are not having success in finding love. There actually is a book called “Men like bitches,”. I’ve all heard those clichés. Is being nice now the new boring? Many […]

There are many benefits of being in love. Everyone knows the cliché, romantic comedy stereotype.  A person in love seems to walk on air, have a magical glow, and radiate joy from every pore.  While it may not be quite so peachy-keen in real life, most people would agree that love, especially the early stages […]