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What Single Women Want From Single Men

Are you wondering what single women want from single men?  When unattached men contemplate their desires regarding unattached women, the specific desires they have can, and often do, vary dramatically. 

The individual man’s set of core values, the cultural milieu in which he was raised, and his particular life experiences will largely dictate the kinds of (often very specific) partners he envisages for himself. 

That said, a number of attributes might be considered well-nigh universal in the desirability that men assign to them as they search for possible mates.

1.**Shared values and compatibility**: Similar to women, men look for partners who share their values, beliefs, and life objectives. We’re talking important stuff here: generally, men’s and women’s discussions about potential long-term partners revolve around settings like these. For men, achieving a profound connection with a partner often depends on finding someone with whom they have a high degree of shared compatibility.

2. **Emotional Intelligence**: The capacity to understand and handle feelings is vital in any partnership. Guys respect gals who can tell them how they feel and who can “get” them in the empathy department. When conflicts arise, it isn’t a sign of weakness to ask for help in resolving them; guys would much rather work things out than stew in silence.

3. **Humor**: A mutual appreciation of humor can be a vital glue factor in a relationship. The average male specimen loves to laugh, seeks out women who can make them laugh, and just plain tends to be more humor-receptive than their female counterparts. And why not? When you think about it, men and women bonding over humor really is one of the dynamics at the heart of man/woman relationships. This is what single women want from single men.

4. **Independence and Ambition**: A large number of men are attracted to women with passion, with interests of their own, and with ambition. Women who possess these qualities are seen as sufficiency in self and in confidence and are often considered good partnership material. Moreover, many men are looking for a supportive spouse who can also hold her own in the ambition department.

5. **Compassion and Kindness**: Nature, nature, is highly valued and is often looked for in a partner. When men seek out a long-term relationship, they commonly look for companionship with someone who is “naturally kind.” Not only is this kindness directed toward them, but they also often interpret acts of kindness directed toward others—like waiting staff, for example—as signs of the companionship potential of these women.

6. **Being Smart Is Hot**: For many guys, it’s a turn-on when a woman is able to hang with them when they start talking about their passions, be they sports, science, or whatever. When the reason for watching “Duck Dynasty” comes up, a guy is way more impressed if a girl says, “Well, it’s a fascinating look at the intersection of masculinity and Southern culture, and I study both,” than if she says, “Because it’s hilarious!”

7. **Being Supportive**: An appealing partner can be one who energetically backs a man’s aspirations and dreams. Men often look for women who champion their ambitions and join them in celebrating life’s great moments. Some would even say these supportive attributes are emblematic of what makes a female partner great. This is what single men want from single women.  

8. **Trust and Honesty**: Any successful relationship is built on trust. Men value dishonest partners less because they build a facade instead of a true partnership. Honesty and integrity, as they do in any relationship, foster a sense of security in a romantic relationship.

9. **Adaptability and Flexibility**: The unpredictability of life makes adaptability a necessary and even admirable quality in a partner. While people of all genders value adaptability in those they might date, it seems that men in particular seek out women who can go with the flow and keep it together when the waters get rough. This is what single women want from single men.

10. **Mutual Interests and Hobbies**: Having common interests can enhance the connection between partners. For women, looking for a partner who shares the same activities can be fulfilling. But can this search truly lead to finding “the one”?

To sum up, although we’re often attracted to someone physically first, most of us who are looking for something serious want much more than that. We want to feel an emotional connection; we want to align with you in terms of the values that are meaningful to us (and to you); and we want something that resembles, even if imperfectly, a kind of mutual respect that might allow us to pretend that we’re something like equals.