As founder of an Austin Matchmaking Service, here is my take on the signs single men give women when he wants to be exclusive.
Determining the difference between a guy who is ready for a relationship and a guy who is just messing around can be really tough. But, when you break it down- it’s not that difficult at all! You just have to know what to be watching out for.
1) He’s giving you quality time
You can tell a guy is ready for a relationship if he is trying to spend a lot of quality time with you. That means he is spending more than 10 minutes at a time with you. It means that he doesn’t just come around to sleep with you and that you see him in broad daylight.
A guy ready to date won’t mind running errands with you or going out in public with you- he will actually enjoy spending any time with you!
2) You’re alwasy together on Friday and Saturday nights.
When a guy is dating multiple women, he’ll see one on Friday and another on Saturday to see who will eventually rank higher on the dating totem pole. If he wants to see you multiple days in a row, including both weekend nights, it’s a sign that you’re probably his one-and-only.
3) You’ve to his family and close friends
A man ready for a relationship with you will make sure you are involved with his family and close friends. He will do everything he can to get you guys to meet and know each other and he will also do his best to get you to like each other.
A guy only brings a girlfriend-type of girl home to his family.
4) You have Daily Communication
Any guy who looks at a girl as girlfriend-material, will keep in good contact with her. He will consistently message, call or text you ever yday. He will reply to your texts or messages right away (unless he really is busy), but he won’t keep you waiting for long. You are always his priority above all others
5) Both of you are patient
Patience is something huge to look out for when trying to figure out if a guy is ready for a relationship or not. A man who is patient with you, waits for you to be ready and respects the pace you want to take with things, is a man ready to make you his girlfriend.
6) Future plans are in the works
While the conversation might not include ring shopping, if he’s suggesting things he wants to do in the future, such as a weekend away, going with him to a concert that he has tickets for, or even discussing relationship goals, he’s a guy that sees you by his side.
7) No other women are in his life
If he is ready to be your boyfriend he won’t keep hanging around other girls. Let’s forget about his sister, his mom and maybe that best friend he’s had since preschool. No, I’m talking about all the other girls that he flirted with before or that try to flirt with him now. He will, all in all, stop paying attention to all girls that aren’t you!
8) Getting to know you better is always on his radar
Men don’t usually waste their time getting to know women that they don’t have future intentions to have a relationship with. If he is trying to get to know you he won’t just ask, “How’s your day been going?” or “What do you do for a living?”
He will go deeper and ask you what you like or dislike about your job, what your hobbies are, favorite foods, music and he might ask about your family or past relationships. If this guy is intrigued, he’ll most likely try to get to know everything about you.
9) Sympathy and kindness are in his nature
He should be a shoulder to cry on at all times, if he’s relationship ready. He will give you his best advice when you ask for it, he will bring the tissues when you are sad and he’ll always try to cheer you up when you are feeling down. Remember, if he is truly ready for you to be his girlfriend, he will expect you to have the same shoulder to lean on for him.
10) Advice you give him is bible.
A relationship-ready fella will display his trust towards you. He will treasure your thoughts and opinions about his decisions and what you have to say altogether. He will respect your advice.
If your new beau is doing the majority of things on this list, he’s into you big time. If he’s doing them all, you may have just won the love lottery and are on your way to getting a commitment.
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